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A 90 year old lady had lost her husband and now had to move to nursing home. So the day she had to move to nursing home inmorning she woke up early got dressed properly with perfectly applied makeup.She was ready to move to nursing home. Cab was called to take her to nursing home.She got into cab and reached nursing home.After reaching nursing home she was askedto wait in the nursing home lobby. She waited patiently for many hours. She smiledsweetly when told her room was ready.As she maneuvered her walker to the elevator nurse gave her a brief visual description of her room including colors of sheets on window.After hearing just description she replied with enthusiasm, “I love it.”Nurse was surprised to hear her reply and responded, “But you haven’t even seen your room yet… Just wait until you see your room.”She replied, “That doesn’t have anything to do with it. Happiness is something that you decide. It doesn’t depend on how my room look or i will like my room or not. It depends

Once in a telecommunication company worked a guy Michael. He was the kind of guy who always used to be in good mood. He was like natural motivator. He was always there there telling the employee howto look on the positive side of the situation.One day one of the co-employee Sam went up to him and asked him, “How do you do it?? How can you be so positive all the time??”Michael replied, “Each morning when i wakeup.. i say to myself..You have two choices today.. You can chose to be in Good mood today or Bad mood.. I chose Good mood..Whenever something bad happen i ask myself.. Either you can chose to be a victim or can learn something from it.. I chose to Learn..Every time someone comes complaining to me.. I have choice to accept complaint or i can point out positive side of life.. I chose positive side of life..”Sam replied, “It’s not as easy as you say.”Michael continued and said, “Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choosehow

Once a ship was wrecked at sea due to storm and only out of all crew two men were bale to swim themselves to a small deserted island.After both reached island, they didn’t know what to do and both talked and they reached on conclusion that there is nothing they can do except to pray to God and wait for rescue.However, they both decided to divide territory between both of them and stay at opposite side of it. They did this to determine whose prayers would be more effective.First thing they needed was food. So first man prayed for food and next day he saw fruits bearing trees on his side and saw thatother man’s side was still barren.After two weeks, first man felt lonely and prayed for wife and next day a women survivor from ship wreck swam to his side of land. On other side there was still nothing.Next first man prayed for home and clothes and more food. Like magic he got all those things. Still other man side was same as before nothing changed.Finally first man prayed for ship so

Once there was a King who had 4 wives. He loved all of his wives but King used to love his 4th wife most and always used to adorned her with finest delicacies. He provided her with best things.His 3rd wife was really beautiful and he loved to show her off to neighboring kingdom.His 2nd wife was very kind, patient and considerate. Whenever king faced some problems with decision he used to go to herand she would help him get through that decision.King’s 1st wife was a very loyal partner and made great contribution in maintaining his health and wealth but king was very ignorant toward her. He hardly took notice of her.One day King fell ill and he knew that he is gonna die soon. King wondered, “I now havefour wives with me, but when I die, I’ll be all alone.”He called his 4th wife and asked, “I loved you most. Now, when i am dying will you follow me?? Keep me company??”4th wife refused and walked away without any other word. King felt very sad.Now King called his 3rd wife and asked s

Once a teacher and his student went out fora walk. After walking a while they reached a farm where student saw a pair of old torn shoes which seemed to be belonged to poor farmer who was just preparing to get back to his home after a whole day of hard work.Seeing this student thought of an idea to have fun and said, “Master, We don’t we hide these shoes behind bushes and wait for farmer to come. It would be fun to watchhis reaction when he will not be able to find his shoes..!! ”Teacher felt bad, looked at his student and said, “Son, it’s not good to play such cruel joke with a poor person.”Teacher thought for a moment and then with a smile on his face he said, “Son, I havea better idea.. Why don’t we just put some coins in each of his shoes and hide behind bushes and then see how farmer will react when he find these coins in his torn shoes??”Student just wanted to see reaction of poor farmer so he did what his teacher asked him to do and then they both hid behind bushes to see far

Judging Others..!! Once a little girl sitting at chair and she was holding two apples in her hands.Her mother came to her and softly asked her, “Sweety, could you give your mom one apple?”Girl looked at her mom for a second and then she suddenly took a bite on one apple and just after that quickly she took a bite of another apple also which she was holding in another hand.Seeing this mother felt sad. She kept smiling as she didn’t want to reveal her disappointment.Then after a min little girl handed one of apples toward her mother and said, “Mom, Take his one. This is the sweeter one.”Suddenly mother realized her mistake of quickly judging the act of little girl wrong way. Moral:We should not Focus on the Surface and Judge others without Understanding first. We should give Other to Explain themselves first.

Once a rich lady complained to his psychiatrist, “I feel like my whole life is empty and it has no meaning.”Listening to this her psychiatrist called over an old lady in his office. He then introduced that old lady to rich lady.Psychiatrist said, “She is Mary, lady who cleaned office floors. I am going to ask her to tell you how she found happiness. All youhave to do is listen to her carefully.Then psychiatrist requested old lady to sit there and share her story with rich lady.Old lady sat on chair and started to tell her story, “Three months ago, my husband died of malaria and three months later my only son was killed in a car accident.I had nothing to live and had nothing left with me. I was not bale to sleep or even eat anything after this. I stopped smiling and even thought to take my own life.Then one day i found a kitten following me from work to home. When i saw that kitten i felt sorry for her. It was cold outside so i decided to let her in and gave her some milkto drink.K

Once in a village lived two brothers who inherited their father’s land. Land was divided between two of them equally and now both of them had separate area for farming.As time passed, Older brother got married, had children while younger brother never got married and was still single.One night younger brother thought to himself, “It’s not fair that we have equal land. My brother has six children to feed and i have none. He should have more grainthan i do.”So that night younger brother went to his silo and took a large bag of wheat with him and went over to his brother’s farm silo, leaving wheat in his older brother’s silo. Younger brother returned home feeling pleased with himself.Same night older brother was also lying awake thinking, “It’s not fair that we both have equal land. In my old age my wife and iwill have our grown children to take care of us while my brother will have no one. He should have more grains to sell so that he can provide for himself in old age.”So even he s

Once a kid used to live with his mother. They were poor and could earn just to manage their needs. Mother had only one eye and because of that kid used to thing ofher as embarrassment.One day when Mother went to kid’s school, everyone in school laughed at him and taunted about his mother having only one eye.Due to this kid started to hate his mother and thought that his mother presence is just an embarrassment for him and he doesn’t want to live with her.So he decided that he would study really hard and will leave his mother. Kid completed his studies with good grades and landed a good job in other city.He left his mother and got settled in city. Hebought a big house, got married and had kids. He was living a happy successful life. There he had nothing to remind him of his mom and embarrassment caused because of her.One day his mother came to see him. When kids saw her they felt scared and went to him. When he came to see who was at their door he found that it was his mother.Seeing

An old story is told of a king in Africa who had a close friend with whom he grew up. The friend had a habit of looking at every situation that ever occurred in his life (positive or negative) and remarking, “Thisis good!”One day the king and his friend were out on a hunting expedition. The friend would load and prepare the guns for the king. The friend had apparently done something wrong in preparing one of the guns, for after taking the gun from his friend, the king fired it and his thumb was blown off. Examining the situation the friend remarked as usual, “This is good!” To which the king replied, “No, this is NOT good!” and proceeded to send his friend to jail.About a year later, the king was hunting in an area that he should have known to stayclear of. Cannibals captured him and tookhim to their village. They tied his hands, stacked some wood, set up a stake and bound him to the stake. As they came near to set fire to the wood, they noticed that the king was missing a t

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid fromhis lungs. His bed was next to the room’s only window. The other man had to spendall his time flat on his back.The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation.And every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window. The man in the other bed began to live for those one-hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activityand color of the world outside.The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their modelboats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color of the rainbow. Grand old tr

Most of us never really focus because we don't know the power of focus. We constantly feel a kind of irritating psychic chaos because we keep trying to think of too many things at once. There'salways too much up there on the screen.There was an interesting motivational talk on this subject given by former Dallas Cowboys coach Jimmy Johnson to his football player:" I told them that if I laid a two-by four plank across the room, everybody there would walk across it and not fall,because our focus would be that we were going towalk that two-by-four. But if I put that same two-by-four plank 10 stories high between two buildings only a few would make it, because the focus would be on failing. Focusis everything.The team that is more focused today is the team that willwin this game."Johnson told his team not to be distracted by the crowed, the media, or the possibility of losing, but to focus on each play of the game itself just as if it were a good practicesession.The

How to take control of my life? Perhaps a parable will help you see my point.High on a hilltop overlooking the beautiful city of Venice, Italy, there lived an old man who was a genius. Legend had it he could answer any question anyone might ask of him. Two of the local boys figured they could fool the old man, so they caught a small bird and headed for his residence.One of the boys heldthe little bird in his hands and asked theold man if the bird was dead or alive. Without hesitation the old man said, " Son, if I say to you that the bird is alive, you will close your hands and crush him to death. If I saythe bird is dead, you will open your handsand he will fly away. You see, son, in yourhands you hold the power of life and death."In your hands you hold the seeds of failure or the potential for greatness. Your hands are capable but they must be used - and for the right things - to reap the rewards you are capable of attaining.

The question was once asked of a highly successful businessman, "How have you done somuch in your lifetime?"He replied, "I grow great by dreams. I have turned my mind loose to imagine what I wanted to do. Then I have gone to bed and thought about my dreams. In the night I dreamt about my dreams. And when I awoke in the morning, I saw the way to make my dreams real. While other people weresaying, 'You can't do that, it is impossible,' I was well on my way to achieving what I wanted." As Woodrow Wilson, 28th President of the U.S., said:"We grow great by dreams. All big men are dreamers."They see things in the soft haze of a spring day, or in the red fire on a long winter's evening. Someof us let these dreams die, but others nourish andprotect them; nourish them through bad days until they bring them to the sunshine and light which comes always to those who sincerely hopethat their dreams will come true.So please, don not let anyone steal

There was a story of a little girl named Liza who was suffering from a disease and needed blood from her five-year-old brother, who had miraculously survived the same disease and had developed the antibodies needed to combat the illness. The doctor explained the situation to her little brother, and asked the boy if he would be willing to give his blood to his sister. I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking a deep breath and saying,“Yes, I’ll do it if it will save Liza.”As the transfusion progressed, he lay in bed next to his sister and smiled, as we alldid, seeing the color returning to her cheeks. Then his face grew pale and his smile faded. He looked up at the doctor and asked with a trembling voice, “Will I start to die right away?” Being young, the boy had misunderstood the doctor; he thought he was going to have to give her all his blood.

*MARRIED IN SCHOOL BUT SINGLE AT HOME.* Pls share with teens, youth and Group Chats that care to read and be Enlightened. Welcome to Nigerian campuses where little girls are practising 'wifely functions'! Just visit the boys' hostels and you would be disappointed to find out that it is now common for a girl to live in with a course mate. It is now common for her lover to give her the popular compliment 'you look sexy my gal' and she would gladly reply 'thank you honey' with a flirty voice and a romantic smile. Who is her lover? A 300 level student whose CGPA is barely up to 1.78! And they are aiming for the next best couple award for the session by the departmental association. So, the girl need to live in with him to prepare along. What nonsense! It seems that some girls suddenly loose their senses immediately they gain admission. I've seen that some of them have no more sense of caution, honour and dignity. They would change their wardr

Once there was a girl who used to be at the waiting shed. She stayed there for a long period of time. The sun shines and the rain pours. Still... she stayed... and waited. While other travelers just go on with their own journey, the girl waited patiently. Maybe she's waiting for someone... or something.Just when she was about to give up, her ride has finally arrived. Through a big step of faith, she hopped in. Didn't know where to go.. how long the travel is.. She just go with the flow. After all, she has no other choice. At first she felt like she's going nowhere. Like she's going around in circle. But as soon as she startto trust the ONE who takes the wheel, her heart change. Excitement stirs up! Hope arises! Joy overflows!Now, she's not in the waiting shed anymore. She is enjoying her journey. Every part of it. The bumpy road. The stop over. Those people journeyed with her. The beautiful scenery.. Her journey to the place He promised her...Her journey to be w

I want to tell you about depression whichis a kind of disorder that side by side kills you internally, all emotional and physical activities gets disturbed by it. I have seen people suffering from depression due to loss of loved ones, genetics as depression can run in families, mental sickness, by usage of drugs, or it also takes place when one starts a job, or getting married etc. may be due to stress. So here is my little effort for people who are suffering from this severe problem.Depression typically encompasses sleepproblems either makes you sleep little ormore. It effects brain and stress patternsas well. The basic therapy for depressionare antidepressant which increase the levels of brain chemicals, causes efficiency. Medical treatment or usage ofanti-depressants can antidote depression. One who is in a dire need or want quick recovery should go for it otherwise natural remedies can do best to overcome depression without having any side effects.First you have to realise the

The story starts out where she, Beth, is sitting at an airport terminal, waiting to board a plane. She was sitting there with several other people who were also waiting, whom she did not know.As she waited, she pulled out her Bible and started reading. All of a sudden she felt as ifthe people sitting there around her, were looking at her. She looked up, but realized that they were looking just over her head, in the direction right behind her.She turned around to see what everyone was looking at, and when she did, she saw astewardess pushing a wheelchair, with the ugliest old man sitting in it, that she had ever seen before. She said he had this long white hair that was all tangled and such a mess. His face was really, really wrinkled, and he didn’t look friendly at all. She said she didn’t know why, but she felt drawn to the man, and thought at first that God wanted her to witness to him. In her mind she said she was thinking, “Oh, God, please, not now, not here.”No matter what

After enduring three years of abuse, and seeing it turn to my children I couldnot take it any more. Strength is more than the measure of muscle. Strength is the courage you muster to do even the things that seem impossible. That year there were 22,000 reported cases of abuse against children in my state. Taking my children from statistics to survivors was the greatest thing I’ve ever done in my life. Not being afraid to speak out against domestic violence any more empowers me. Jump out on that limb and reach for the greatness you deserve, you’re not just a statistic, you are a human, you are survivor just waiting to break free.

I grew up very poor and with a single mom in the throws of addiction. Often there was no money for food, and I was hungry a lot.On my fifth birthday (1986), a couple close family members were invited to go to a park to celebrate my birthday. No cake, no presents, not a problem. Except for my auntie. She had an envelope in her hand.Before everyone sang happy birthday, I saw a little boy, probably my age, and a woman, digging in the park dumpster for food. Something happened to me. I begged my mom to invite them to my party but my mother was not a fan of strangers. She said no.I was intrigued, I didn't know others struggled like me, it hurt my heart. I watched them as everyone sang. I watched them when my auntie handed me an envelope. I watched them as I opened it until I saw the contents, a crisp 100 dollar bill. My mother was enraged that my auntie would give me such a large amount of money. I think my auntie trusted me more than my mother with cash.We were poor, I didn't e

My whole life i have been bullied. i don'treally remember a time when i haven't been bullied. the world is filled with them so you can't seem to get away from them no matter how hard you try. but i have learned that you must not believe what they say and believe what YOU have to say. bullies are just a waste of time to listen to. all they are trying to do is put you down and put them up. but that is not what is really happening. it just makes you want to prove to them that they are wrong and eventually you do. because when you walk away from them it's not them that's winning it's you.I am 14 years old and that is what i have to say to all of those who are getting bullied out there.

I was about 8 or 9 when i first met this kid named landon. He was in my 3rd grade class he was always smiling and laughing. we became friends that year.well fast forward a few years and he is in 7th and i am in 8th. i see him the the lunch room and i never spoke to him. one time i did and he did not remember me so i had to remind him. this was getting towards the end of the year so i am in ninth now and i haven't seen him in a year. well a couple of weeks ago i got a text saying that he had past on from a dirt bike wreck. i just wanted to share this because you need to always cherish the moment. so if you have a friend that you haven't seen in a while just give them a call and check on them. #cherish the moment

When I was young, my household consisted of my mother, my grandmother, and my uncle. I had no contact with my father. My mother took a passive role in my upbringing causingmy grandmother to raise me primarily. I lost her to severe pneumonia when I was 10. My mother tried to continue mygrandmother's efforts; although, began to fall short. She did not work and withdrew most days leaving me to my own actions/thoughts. My uncle, who was providing all financial support passed when I was 11 leaving my mother and myself with no financial support.She applied for financial assistance and we were barely surviving. With my mother’s withdrawal from life, little financial skills, and poor organization I did not have food, clothes, or discipline.After an investigation by child services, I was placed in foster care. Upon returning to my mother's care, I had losthope of a "normal" life.Prior to placement in foster care, I had volunteered at the local hospital to gain hospital ex

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He didn't carry the cross  for weight lifting, neither did He endure the flogging to marry a Fulani lady nor did He wear the crown to be the next Oba of Benin.. He did it for you, your family and I. I pray that His death and resurrection will bring to you and me salvation and great blessing. In Jesus name. Amen.

Easter Story A holy man was having a conversation with the Lord one day and said,"Lord, I would like to know what Heaven and Hell are like."The Lord led the holy man to two doors.He opened one of the doors and the Holy man looked in.In the middle of the room was a large round table.In the middle of the table was a large pot of stew, which smelled delicious and made the holy man'smouth water.The people sitting around the table were thin and sickly. They appeared to be famished. They were holding spoons with very long handles that were strapped to their arms and each found it possible to reach into the pot of stew and take a spoonful. But because the handle was longer than their arms, they could not get the spoons back into their mouths.The holy man shuddered at the sight of their misery and suffering.The Lord said, "You have seen Hell."They went to the next room and opened the door.It was exactly the same as the first one. There was the large round table

Praying in a Jungle I want to relate an event which happened nearly 10 years ago. I was 9 at that time, still a small child back then. It happened in a village in Alibaug a place in Maharashtra in India during thesummer holidays.We (my mom and me) were at the beach for quitesome time when we decided to go back. Normally, after walking for about 10 minutes, we would reach the hotel.My mom asked her friend where our sandals were (we were still at the beach). Her friend pointed in some direction, and my mom then went there. However, soon mom realised we werelost.We were now in a quite a big jungle. And since it was noon, the ground was quite hot and my mom had to carry me. I was scared. I didn’t understand then, our plight, mom was in a big jungle with her 9-year-old kid and completely lost.I was scared and didn’t know what to do. So I began to pray. As a child, the only prayer I knew was “Our Father” and “God Our Protector” (Psalms 92). I don’t remember which of the two I prayed,

Death is life, and life is death, how odd a mystery.God, Himself, became a man for everyone to see.Life is more than food and drink, or striving to obtain.If....in life, that's all there is, existence is insane.Why would God, allow a man, to just be born and die?If in life, that's all there is, the question must be, 'why?'Life would have no purpose, if we only live and die.If all we have, is these few years, why should we even try?But, God did come to common man, trying to explain.The plan He had, for all of them, to come with Him to reign.He said, "This life is nothing, it is just a place to start."The earth is like a garden, where He's planted every heart.He wanted us mature and pure, before we enter in,The perfect world, He has for us, when we outgrow our sin.He placed us here to learn to be obedient to Him.Not out of fear, of who He is, but love we have within.Then, He realized, we could not do it on our own.He became a man Himself, to help us to a

A little boy was selling newspapers on the corner street, where the people were going in and out of the cold. The little boy was so cold himself that he wasn't really trying to sell many papers.He walked up to a policeman nearby and said,"Mister, you wouldn't happen to know where a poor boy could find a warm place to sleep tonightwould you? You see, I sleep in a box up around the corner there and down the alley and it's awful cold in there for tonight. Sure would be nice to have a warm place to stay."The policeman looked down at the little boy and said, "You go down the street to that big white house and you knock on the door. When they come out the door... you just say John 3:16, and they will let you in."So he did. He walked up the steps and knocked on the door, and a lady answered. He looked up and said, "John 3:16." The lady said, "Come on in, Son." She took him in and she sat him down in a split bottom rocker in front of

I wasn't paying attention at the time to the good example my father set. He wasn't consciously"setting a good example" -- he was just living life according to his values.It was the 1950s in a small Middle Georgia farm town. Our family owned a clothing store in the middle of the main business block downtown. Sixdays a week, 8am until 6pm (9pm on Saturday), my father presided over his business. And sometimes an angel would come to our store.I didn't recognize those visitors as angels. Neither did my mother, who accepted my father's decisions but referred to Daddy's angels as"bums". She was concerned that they painted hobo marks to guide others to my father. My father was, and still is, an extremely kind man. Hebought them lunch.I guess Daddy knew Mama's opinion and took precautions in case any individual "angel" might actually be an alcoholic. He would have a friendly,encouraging conversation with the person, who was shabby and

Once upon a time there was a village which was facing great poverty. One day three richmen and their servants were traveling on the same road, on their way they came to this poor village. Seeing the poverty of village all the three men thought of helping the people of village.The first man couldn’t see their poverty so he took all the gold and silver from his wagons and shared them among villagers. He wished them all the best and left.Second rich man seeing poverty and condition of village decided to help them. So he gave away all his food and drink as hethought that money couldn’t be of much useto them. He made sure that each one in village get fair share and get enough food that would last for time. Then he left.Third rich man, after seeing the poverty of villagers speed-ed up and traveled straight through the village without stopping.Other two rich men saw this from distance and commented with each other that how third rich man lacked decency and compassion and it was good that