CAN YOU CULTIVATE ME?
CAN YOU CULTIVATE ME?
It's common among single ladies to ask a man who proposed to them the following questions : Do you really love me? What do you feel for me? Are you sure I'm the right person for you ? It's not a crime to ask such a question but among others, the first question to ask the man before entering the relationship is: CAN YOU CULTIVATE ME?
Genesis 2:15
'And the Lord God took the man, and put him into the garden of Eden to dress it and to keep it'.
God told Adam to cultivate the garden.
You need a man that can cultivate you.
To cultivate means to bring the best out of you, to advance you,to develop you.
Don't marry a man who cannot improve you.
Don't marry a man who cannot bring the best out of you.
The Bible says two are better one. So,if you are not a better person since you started the relationship, you are in a wrong relationship.
If the relationship is asking you to sacrifice your dignity,your value and worth, it's time to walk away. Don't marry a man who will decree your value,marry someone who will increase and improve your value. Don't be desperate to get married and thereby accept any kind of man that comes your way.Be sure the man can cultivate you, advance you, improve You and bring out the best in you.
Single guys, cultivate your lady, help her to discover her purpose in life and support her to fulfill it. Bring out the best in her. Invest your time and resources in making her a better person.
Dear married men, all women are beautiful, stop comparing your wife with another girl out there,rather cultivate her,invest in her, encourage her and she will become the best woman in the world.
UNCHARTED TERRITORY.
It's common among single ladies to ask a man who proposed to them the following questions : Do you really love me? What do you feel for me? Are you sure I'm the right person for you ? It's not a crime to ask such a question but among others, the first question to ask the man before entering the relationship is: CAN YOU CULTIVATE ME?
Genesis 2:15
'And the Lord God took the man, and put him into the garden of Eden to dress it and to keep it'.
God told Adam to cultivate the garden.
You need a man that can cultivate you.
To cultivate means to bring the best out of you, to advance you,to develop you.
Don't marry a man who cannot improve you.
Don't marry a man who cannot bring the best out of you.
The Bible says two are better one. So,if you are not a better person since you started the relationship, you are in a wrong relationship.
If the relationship is asking you to sacrifice your dignity,your value and worth, it's time to walk away. Don't marry a man who will decree your value,marry someone who will increase and improve your value. Don't be desperate to get married and thereby accept any kind of man that comes your way.Be sure the man can cultivate you, advance you, improve You and bring out the best in you.
Single guys, cultivate your lady, help her to discover her purpose in life and support her to fulfill it. Bring out the best in her. Invest your time and resources in making her a better person.
Dear married men, all women are beautiful, stop comparing your wife with another girl out there,rather cultivate her,invest in her, encourage her and she will become the best woman in the world.
UNCHARTED TERRITORY.
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