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Danica: Do wetin? Louie: How you take hold body for long? Danica: hahahahaha. Louie you need to get busy, that is the only thing that will take your mind off sex. Louie: Get busy ke? With what na? Danica: with your business of course. Louie: I employ people to run my supermarket for me and it is doing fine. I only go there to check how my business is doing once is a month isn’t that okay? Danica: why don’t you think of opening another business? Loiue: noooo. I am okay with the one I have at the moment. It is doing fine on its own. Is it because I asked you how you were faithful while your husband was always away from work that is why you are telling me all this? Danica: yes na. that is one of the reason behind me not missing my husband all those years. Loiue: you strong ooo. Even if I have all the businesses in the whole world, my night is always lonely. I need a man who will be by my side till morning comes. Danica: Louie, this is not zeeworld oooo, it is real...

Hayden: Guy, put yourself together. You cannot keep on wallowing in self-pity. Man up and move on abeg. Mason: Hayden, how do I do that when I have invested my all in this relationship? I gave her all of me and to be sincere, I really truly loved Ujunwa. I loved her with everything in me. But why? When we are planning to get married in the next three month, why could she allow the devil to use her to this point? Hayden: You should be happy that you caught her red handed in the hotel you booked for the both of you. It means that God is trying to show you the kind of person she is. As for me, I am happy you caught her, else it would have been a case of you fathering another person’s child thinking it is yours. Mason: he shook his head ‘women are evil, they are wicked’. Look at all of them he said pointing to the young ladies passing by ‘they are all wicked’. ‘None of them should be trusted. With what Ujunwa did to me eh! I am not sure I will want to harbor any woman in my hous...

Remember the saying, "you can't change other people, you can only change yourself." So if someone tells you that you have a poor attitude, don't try and convenience them otherwise as you won't change their mind. When someone tells us this we have a tendency to take a defensive attitude, instead focus on how you can change. Can you change attitudes of other people? Again, I would refer to the saying, "you can't change other people, you can only change yourself". You will end up becoming very frustrated if you try and change other people. Remember, you can only change yourself and how you deal with that individual.

I see people laughing and joking all around, but on my face there is no smile; instead there is a frown. I never laugh anymore; instead I cry, and I never stop to ask myself, "Why?" I heard we live and die by the choices we make, and there's only so much a person can take. So just remember life goes on, and it hurts when someone leaves and is gone. So always remember, keep your head up, because another door is opened every time one is shut.

On the day of the meeting, they all gathered at the Igwe’s palace, the Chief Priest was in attendance too. First Elder:  Igwe, like we discussed earlier about the problem on ground, we are all here to proclaim the verdict on what should be done. Igwe: Nodding his head and turning to Chinwedum “Since you have not been in attendance and you are here today, are you the real father of Nnamdi?” Chinwedum: Yes Igwe, he is my son. Igwe: In that case, Chief Priest what do you have to say about Ifeoma’s case? Chief Priest: Abomination is what you committed, in other to appease the gods and cleanse yourself and household,  Ifeoma you will have to walk naked from your house to the village square on the market day three times. Mama Ifeoma: She has to do all these even when she is no longer interested in the marriage? Chief Priest: I have not finished my verdict woman! Mama Ifeoma: Sorry, please continue. Chief Priest: All these will have to be done; you will also prov...

Two days to the meeting, Chinwedum paid a visit to Mama Nnamdi to inquire about the news spreading round the village and the meeting to be held. Chinwedum:How are you doing and why are you looking so unkempt? He asked as she ushered him in. Are you okay? Mama Nnamdi: I am doing okay, just been a little down but I will be fine. She said as they both sat opposite each other. Chinwedum: Nnamdi came to me a few days ago to inquire about his real identity, how did he get to know? Besides what are all these rumors going around? Mama Nnamdi: I am afraid the rumors are true and I'm sorry that he came to you before I did. I haven’t been myself lately. Chinwedum: This must have been hard on you and it's my fault, I shouldn’t have allowed you to get married to him while you were carrying my child. I don’t know how I'm supposed to relay this news to my family but I do hope they understand and accept him when the time comes. Mama Nnamdi: You'll be fine with time they wi...

Mama Ifeoma: Tukiafwa! My daughter cannot remain married to you oooo, God forbid. Nnamdi: look Mama, I am very sorry for all that has happened to your daughter but I am here to make amends, just give me one more  chance and I promise to make everything right. Mama Ifeoma: Are you deaf, didn’t you hear what I said ‘she shouted’. Nnamdi: Mama it’s me oooo, your son in-law. We can resolve any issues we have. Mama Ifeoma: which son in-law, which son in-law? She shouted Nnamdi: Mama Please, it is Nnamdi begging you he said still standing by the door side. Mama Ifeoma: Nnamdi or whatever you call yourself, My daughter is no longer interested in this marriage. Nnamdi: Mama Please. Mama Nnamdi: Don’t please me my friend, don’t  you  know you are an Osu and you are a slave. People like my daughter do not and will never have anything to do with you. Nnamdi: But we are married Mama. Mama Nnamdi: A marriage that was based on lies? Nnamdi: she is still my wife. ...