Dhammy Kelly's Blog

No Money in Circulation but Laziness in high supply!!!! I will give you FOUR examples... First : Two young adults came to visit me one morning. They needed money for food. I told them that I do not have enough but if they don't mind, they should help me and wash my car so that I can give them the money I budgeted for the car wash..... Both of them left lazily and I took the car to the car wash...... Second : We have approximately 10 trips of sand dumped by caterpillar. I wanted to level the place for motorists and saw 3 young guys parading the street with noisy music from one China torchlight. When I asked them how much they will collect to level it, they said 5k each, I asked them to commence. In the evening, I drove to the site with their money, I was shocked when I got there and noticed that they did nothing. On my way back, I saw one of them who told me that they couldn't find shovel to do the work.......  Third : One undergraduate came to me seeking for ...

From my earliest memory, I was always in my imagination. When I was a kid, I loved superheroes, so, not only would play as I were any particular hero, I also started making my own comic books. I liked the idea of creating something in my head and to bringing it to life. I am constantly daydreaming. I’m always thinking of people, projects, scenarios, etc. Since I’m always in my head, I feel I imagine every scenario before it happens; therefore when the time comes to make a decision, I’ve all ready made up my mind. As I got older, I realized how much I enjoy using my imagination and bringing it to reality. Since then, I’ve fiddled with vlogging, had successful projects and executed house parties (if you consider that a project). For these reasons, I wanted to pursue the entrepreneur minor so I can continue using my imagination to create. I hope I can continue doing this and make a happy living of it.

My name is Zahra* and I am a warrior! I am sharing my story in the hope that if you or a loved one has been recently diagnosed with cancer, it will take you beyond the and help you through the difficult days ahead. Exactly 4 months after my wedding, I started having killing headaches. I was in great shape otherwise, so I was not particularly concerned when the emergency room doctor told me he needed further scans. The medical consensus was that I had probably too much stress due to being distant from my spouse (visa issues!) and being newly-wed so...! However, my internist ordered a battery of tests. Even though everything else was ruled out, he was as shocked as I when the CT scan showed evidence of a metastatic disease. Life turned surreal as the medical tests began to determine what kind of cancer I had. It then became affirmed that I had a brain tumour! The days passed in slow motion as I waited to find out whether I was a candidate for surgery and then for the date of ...

They say life doesn't give you what you deserve but what you fight for.Life has all that we need to live like gold underneath the earth that you need to extract from the mother earth.In extracting it there levels of difficulties which we encounter .As we go deeper the earth there level that are soft and others are rocky and hard which makes one to give up but one thing as an individual on a journey you need to understand that every level needs a different approach or strategy .Encountering rocky and situations in life doesn't mean you should give up.In the journey of life or moving with your vision ,you need to demonstrate perseverance,not giving up easily because you never know that one hit that hardy and rocky situation there is that precious gold,that breakthrough which you desire.I have realized that a lot of people give up on the verge success or breakthrough .Giving up must not an option in ones life..All people who had achieved their desires possessed a greater hunge...

During life time theirs going to be that one time in your life when you feel like telling a lie one your afraid of getting in trouble or two your embarrassed so you hide the truth so you tell a lie it's never okay to tell a lie about something even if it's not important you shouldn't lie because their is always a consequence that will follow behind the lie and it could get you in a serious situation just like with friend you have to be honest or it could cause drama or it could cause you to lose friends any adult if you lie like for example if you lie to your parents their is a 100% chance that you have lost their trust for you so when you do tell the truth it won't matter because they won't believe you unless they hear it from someone else who proved them wrong for not believing you. There is a way that you could earn trust back but it's a really hard way because it takes time for them not to call you a liar or fake so I would strongly suggest people not to...

Ifeoma: Why is that? Ikedi: Because, if I had done that at a young age, I won’t be hear listening to what the doctor said today. Ifeoma: that is in the past now, at least you have a child now and that is something to be grateful for. Ikedi: it is because of me that my child is the way he is. This is really worst than the wasted money! Why will the poor boy Obiechina suffer over my own mistakes? Hmmm… Ifeoma: Don’t beat yourself up for the mistake made, there is nothing you can do about it except helping him with his therapy. Ikedi: Hmmm, when I had it all, I never knew it will end up like this. Ifeoma: That’s life for you. Ikedi: Wow! This life, nobody can say how someone will end. I thought I had my life all figured out. Everything dawned on me when my mother died. Ifeoma: What do you mean? Ikedi: I thought that I had my whole life planned just the way I wanted it, Give birth to as many kids as I want whenever I am ready but look at my life now. Ifeoma: but you ha...

Doctor: We need to do more test and evaluation on your child. Ifeoma: Doctor, What is the problem with him? Doctor: Your child is suffering from Autism. Ifeoma: Is that the reason why he hardly mingle with his peers and doesn’t smile and communicate? Doctor: That is one of many reasons why he behaves the way he does. Ifeoma: All my children were okay during childbirth, how come his own is different? Doctor: We can’t really say but a lot of factor could be at play here. Ifeoma: What do you mean? Doctor: When you were pregnant, did you take care of yourself and unborn baby? The kind of alcohol you took and maybe, just maybe the paternal age could also play a role here. Ikedi: What do you mean Paternal age doctor? Doctor: Ermmm, at what age did you give birth to your son? Ikedi: You mean Obiechina? Doctor: Yes. Ikedi: Sixty three, sixty four. Doctor: Okay, you gave birth at an old age if I am allowed to use that word. Ikedi: What has that got to do with my s...

With the help of the teacher assigned daily to look after Obiechina, Ifeoma was able to know how her child was faring. Ifeoma: ‘Good day Chinonso’ for that is her name. Chinonso: Good day Ma. Ifeoma: How is my child interacting with other of his peers please? Chinonso: To be sincere with you ma, I think he is a little bit reserved and withdrawn Ma. He doesn’t communicate or get close to anybody. Ifeoma: Why is that so? Chinonso: Its simple Ma, your son cannot say any meaning full two words phrase no matter how hard we try to help him, he hardly smiles,does not imitate sound and movement of other peers unlike other children, still unable to say two or three words. I think you should see a pediatric doctor. Ifeoma: You really think that is the best solution right now? Chinonso: Yes it is and the earlier it is done the better. Ifeoma: Thank you so much for taking care of my child, I will see to it that something is done about it as soon as possible. Chinonso: ‘You are...

Ikedi: You worry too much; he will come around in his own time. Ifeoma: I do not think that is the situation with our son. Ikedi: Give him time ifeoma, he will come around. Every child is different in their own way. Ifeoma: but this one is different, he can’t say a few words properly. Ikedi: okay, fine. What do you want us to do now? Ifeoma:  I would like to take him to the hospital for medical check -up. Ikedi: Alright but it won’t be now; if after six months he doesn’t improve then you can take him to a hospital. Ifeoma: In that case, I would like to send him to kindergarten for him to see his peers and mingle with, maybe that would change him a bit and enable him talk faster. Ikedi: If that is what you want, fine by me. Ifeoma: Thanks dear. == Few Days later, Nkiruka paid a visit to his brother Ikedi. Ikedi: Sister, welcome to my house. Nkiruka: Ehen Ikedi, how are you and how is your health? Ikedi: I am doing fine. Nkiruka: No sign and symptoms of...

Ikedi: Hmmm. Ifeoma: What’s hmmm? Ikedi: Nothing really. Ermmm how old are you again? Ifeoma: I am forty five years old. Ikedi: can I say something please Ifeoma: Go ahead Please. Ikedi: would you like to have more kids. Ifeoma: Lol….Hmmm. Why are you asking me all these questions? Ikedi: Because I would like to marry you and I want you to have my kids if you would want to be my wife. Ifeoma: I am not sure I want to get married again. Wait a minute, are you asking me to marry you? Ikedi: Yes I am. Ifeoma: I am not sure I want to. Ikedi: Why? Ifeoma: Because I do not want to. Ikedi: Please Ifeoma, I want you to be my wife. Ifeoma: I can’t. Ikedi: because of your kids or what? Ifeoma: Because I do not know you or if you are serious and it is too sudden for you to ask that of me. Ikedi: If you want time. I will give you time and we can get to know each other. I just want us to get married and you bear my name and have kids for me. Ifeoma: What makes ...

Ikedi’s family came around after Oluchi left and took over with taking care of him. His bosom friend’s Ekene and Chidera cut all ties with him for they didn’t want to have anything to do with with him ever again. Nkiruka was the only person who solely took over the responsibility of seeing that his little brother gets better again and she used all her resources to send him to india of which he spent one year six months there. When he came back, he came back better and despair. Nkiruka: Now that you are back to Nigeria, it is time you put the pieces of your life together. Ikedi: ‘Hmmmm’ he sobered’ Nkiruka: What is hmmm again? Ikedi: Nothing, it’s just that I do not know how or where to begin Nkiruka: you have to start from somewhere. Ikedi: I can’t think of anything right now. Nkiruka: You have to, you have to man up, accept your loss and move on. Ikedi: How can I do that when I lost everything. I don’t even have anything left of me. I don’t even have a child of my own...

Doctor: Stroke….He had partial stroke. == After two years of focusing and caring for her husband, Oluchi became frustrated. He wasn’t improving and his been away from his business was beginning to affect them financially. Oluchi: ‘Take a look at your financial statement for the past three months’ she said to ikedi who was on a wheelchair watching the football league that was going on. Ikedi: Though he could not talk out loud for he was still down with the partial stroke which affected his right side but he understood very well what is happening and also understood that all his businesses has been suffering the past years because he is unstable. He looked at his wife and mumbled a few words to her but she didn’t understand what he was saying and she went close to him to hear what he said ‘call my lawyer’ he said. Oluchi: I should call your lawyer? Ikedi: Nodded and said ‘Yes’. Oluchi: Called his lawyer and in a few minutes, he lawyer arrived. Ikedi instructed his lawyer...

Ikedi: But we just came back from Dubai a week ago. Oluchi: We! Thank God you said we. I didn’t go alone because you were with me every single day of my stay there. This time around, I want to go alone and enjoy myself with my friends. Ikedi: Alright, how much do you need for your trip? Oluchi: Twenty million naira. Ikedi: Twenty million naira, Hmmm. What do you need that kind of money for? Oluchi: For travelling and other expenses. Ikedi: Alright. Just tell me when you need it and I will sign the cheque. When you return, we will go for the check- up. Oluchi: That is okay by me. == When she returned back from her trip to London, Ikedi and Oluchi went to visit their doctor who certified them medically okay and told them to be patient for God’s time. Ikedi: ‘Don’t you think we should try  IVF’ he said when they returned home from the hospital. Oluchi: IVF ke! Why would I want to try IVF when there is nothing wrong with the both of us? Me, I am not ready to do t...

Oluchi: Hmmm, as you see me now eh! That your right is no longer your right until I live my marriage. Chukwuma: What do you mean? Oluchi: It means that from hence forth, your right now belong to my husband and my husband alone. Chukwuma: When did this one start? Oluchi: The day we got married legally. Chukwuma: I knew it! I knew it! I knew that when you marry that old fool you will change towards me, didn’t I say so? Oluchi: That old fool is my husband, that old fool is the same old fool that I collect money from to give you. Arent you ashamed of yourself sef? I collect money other men give to me and give you and yet you still call my husband old fool in my presence, I don’t blame you, it is because I am here in your house else, It would have been the opposite. Chukwuma: Errrmmm, okay sorry for calling him that but you denying me my right is not also good. Check it out na, since you married, I have not had a piece of you. Oluchi: If that is the case, if you cannot hold...